The Swinging Lifestyle: Opening Up

July 7, 2020
Hosted by Lexi Sylver

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What is it really like to be a swinger? Mr. Mocha, the co-producer of the lifestyle podcast Ofacez, joins host Lexi Sylver to share some of his wisdom gained from over a decade of swinging. They debunk myths that newbies have when they first enter the open lifestyle and become swingers, and the importance of trust, honesty, and communication as being central to all types of healthy relationships. They explore intimacy versus sex, differences between cheating in monogamous relationships versus ethical non-monogamy, and the ways in which they enjoy certain freedoms within the lifestyle. Mr. Mocha also delves into some of his personal experiences of himself and Mrs. Mocha, who are an interracial couple, being on the receiving end of racism and discrimination both within and outside of the swinging lifestyle. He offers insight and perspective for those having trouble understanding the Black Lives Matter movement and systemic racism, giving actionable advice to create meaningful change.

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Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is an ambassador for sexual education within erotic dating communities. Her mission is to promote personal empowerment by guiding you to explore your mind and body shamelessly, without judgment.

Lexi shares her passions on her blog, where she writes erotic stories, sex toy reviews, and openly discusses sexuality. She is a published author and curates a selection of sex toys and lingerie on her website. Lexi worked on many movies and series within the adult entertainment industry and was nominated for an AVN award for Best Screenplay.

While studying Psychology at McGill, Lexi was involved in several women’s groups on campus. She is on the Sexual Health Network of Quebec’s Board of Directors, co-chairing fundraisers to raise awareness for Sex Ed.

Since its inception nearly 20 years ago, SDC has evolved from a swingers’ dating platform into the world’s largest international open-minded community. Each of the more than 3 million members share a common desire to discover, connect and create with like-minded individuals in a safe environment.

To help you achieve this goal, SDC lets you explore and discover your deepest passions by providing compelling content, expert advice and tips from licensed sex therapists, relationship experts, and medical professionals. Whether a first-time explorer or a veteran, and no matter your relationship status, desire, question, or curiosity, SDC will guide you through every aspect of your erotic journey.

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