Our Marriage: Open Communication and Multiple Relationships
July 2, 2021
Hosted by Christi Anne Bela
Monogamy used to be the way of marriage, but history and science has shown that "Open Relationships" are more common. Dr. Marcin Bela and I met in 2015 at his birthday party and soon after in 2017 we were married. Our relationship was Polyamorous from the beginning having both been married and explored Non-Monogamy before, we were clear on what we wanted. That however has not stopped us from continuing to figure out what works and what challenges us in our ethically non-monogamous lifestyle. This episode is a very candid conversation (we literally were in a passionate discussion minutes before recording) about what we have learned and how we stay curious along the way to keep discovering the ways to come together as we evolve. With insight and communication tips for any relationship dynamic, plus a first hand look at our marriage, this episode is one that I am especially excited to share. Thank you for welcoming my honored guest and incredible husband, Dr. Marcin Bela to get unbuckled ;)
Unbuckled, with Intimacy Architect Christi Anne Bela
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“Unbuckled” is where you will be seen and heard. It features world-renowned guests in the fields of spiritality, sexual health, wellness and coaching. No topic is taboo. These doctors, authors, speakers, teachers and healers want to hear your stories, so together we can get raw and real.
Christi Anne Bela and her guests are here to help you get out of your own way and gain the insight you need to build a life you love. The intimacy of understanding brings empowerment to all your connections. Get clear on what matters and make your boundaries your superpowers.
Anything we are too afraid to talk about is holding us hostage, and it is time to name it, claim it, lean in and do all the hard things, let vulnerability crack the heart wide open and let the light shine through.
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Christi Anne Bela
Christi Anne Bela, published author, keynote speaker, radio personality and Intimacy Architect. Her expertise is helping people discover the power of intimacy and how to harness it, opening themselves to living passionately.
Christi Anne began her work as a sexuality educator in 2008. She has an extensive background in Tantra, Yoga and wellness, including training at the Autism Center of America and the Kundalini Research Institute.
She is the founder of Intimacy Architecture, which combines self-growth and community building to create safer ways to enjoy and honor the power of our sexuality. The acronym she created, C.A.T.C.H., to teach boundaries to people of all ages and abilities is featured in the “Consent Guidebook” and was part of the talk she did at TEDx Lenox Village Women in 2020.
Christi Anne has spoken on the subject of consent and boundaries at the Sex Down South Conference, Mega Disability Conference and the Arc Conference for the last 3 years. She has run workshops for Sex Positive World, body positive Burlesque series, fundraisers for LGBTQ youth and outreach with the Nashville Pride.