The Energetics of Better Sex

October 23, 2013
Hosted by Ellen Eatough

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Dr. Sheri Vie will explore the mystical Eastern perspective on sexuality and relationships and how to get your sexual energy to work for you. Discover how to capitalize on sexual pleasures during lovemaking to sustain your daily life with vibrancy, vitality and mental focus. Learn to ride on that sexual energy throughout the day. You’ll also find out: What times of day are best for the most fulfilling sex, and when it can do more harm than good How the right kind of sex with the right partner regenerates your brain Super foods for super sex… what really has aphrodiasiac effects How your chakras affect your sexual satisfaction and what to do if they’re blocked Why the best atheletes are prohibited from having sex before competition

Extatica: The Way to an Erotic, Ecstatic Love Life

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Sex can almost always be better. EXTATICA: The Way to an Erotic, Ecstatic Love Life explores the depths, breadth and heights to which deep intimacy and fulfilled sexuality can take us, and how you can expand YOUR sex life. Learn ways to boost full-body pleasure, sexual communication and sexual-spiritual union.

Host Ellen Eatough, “The Soulful Sex Coach” and sexual healer, will inspire you as she examines new possibilities in the world of love, sex, intimacy and sexual-spiritual fulfillment with intriguing top experts. They’ll give you a sense of permission to push your boundaries and explore new realms, as you heal sexual wounds and release the chokehold of cultural repression and inhibition that may have limited your enjoyment of the richly fulfilling sex life you deserve. Plus, you’ll get practical “how to” information and tools to do this. Learn to cultivate the powerful energies of sexuality and an undefended heart so you can fully express your divine nature in all of life.

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Ellen Eatough

Since 1991, Ellen Eatough has been helping individuals and couples release sexual and relationship blocks and enjoy deeper intimacy, sexual healing, joyful sexual expression, and sexual-spiritual integration. She uses vibrational frequencies, including colored light, sound, and subtle energy in her programs, products and transformational work with clients.

With a Masters Degree in East-West Psychology, Ellen is a Certified Hypnotherapist and trained practitioner in many energetic and somatic modalities. In 1998, she began having dramatic spontaneous encounters with sexual-spiritual ecstasy and became a research subject in a nationwide study of people who have spontaneous experiences of transcendent sex. Inspired to share what’s potentially accessible to everyone, Ellen integrates ancient sacred lovemaking traditions, relationship psychology, and cutting-edge sex research in a way that is relatable to mainstream lovers.

She has received international acclaim for her workshops and products on sexual healing and ecstatic lovemaking, which she defines as an integration of intense sexual pleasure, deep emotional intimacy, and spiritual union. She produced Music for Better Sex infused with Auditory Pheromones™ and the “4 Keys to Sexual Ecstasy” lovemaking enhancement system and book. She has published numerous articles, conducted workshops at the International Conference on Sacred Sexuality and been a guest on numerous programs, including Playboy Radio and GAIAM TV.

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