Kindness: When Is It Real? When Is It a Manipulation?
March 17, 2015
Hosted by Helen Hillix, Todd Benton and Chris Reese
In a recent workshop, a participant admitted that she's nice in order to get people to love her. Is that really kindness? Or is it manipulation? Have you ever been nice in order to get someone to like you? A popular kid at school? A good-looking guy or girl? An employer? Why did you do it? What was the result? How can you tell when your kindness is genuine vs. when it’s a manipulation? How does it feel when it happens to you? Host Beth Green says if you’re getting love through being “nice,” you’ll never feel loved. And if people are buying your love, your won't feel loved either. She says kindness and nice are not the same. In fact, she questions the whole paradigm of nice and not nice. Get in on the discussion. Let’s talk about kindness. Tune in, call in and ask Beth how to become more authentically yourself. After the show, “like” us on Facebook, share the link, and join the post-show (see link on the right.) Or don’t. And don’t do it just to be nice!
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Helen Hillix, Todd Benton and Chris Reese
Helen Hillix, Todd Benton and Chris Reese met many years ago, when our journeys for inner healing brought us to the InnerRevolution.Org. Under the guidance of Beth Green, the organization’s founder, we evolved into spiritual activists who support the three principles of The Inner Revolution: Oneness, Accountability and Mutual support – in all areas of life. Ultimately, there is no personal healing; no one person can be well in a world where others are suffering. It takes a collective shift in awareness for sustainable change and for everyone to thrive. InnerRevolutionary radio was Beth Green’s baby, and now it’s our turn to nurture this platform and share the vision: gathering others and sharing work that is being done around the world under many different banners to bring more consciousness into personal, political, spiritual and business arenas. As co-hosts of InnerRevolutionary Radio, Helen, Todd and Chris bring you a weekly opportunity to confront mindless traditions, look at how we separate from one another, and learn to transform our thinking. And, once a month we interview Beth, who is an amazingly wise, compassionate, and funny woman. We have day jobs too: Helen is an intuitive counselor, Todd a web developer, and Chris is an insurance industry executive. Each of us practices the principles of Oneness, Accountability and Mutual Support in all aspects of our lives. It’s a ride, with ups and downs, and worth every minute of it! Join us to learn, laugh and evolve.