Real Love In Marriage

May 26, 2017
Hosted by Colette Malan

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In this show Colette will interview Dr. Greg Baer, author of Real Love in Marriage. Unconditional love is what we all seek, but most of us have never really experienced it. Early on we learn that love is conditional: that people give us love and approval when we do what they want, and when we don’t, they love us less. From this we’ve learned to settle for Imitation Love. Real love is caring about the happiness of another person without any thought for what we might get. We’ll learn that although most of us marry for the purpose of receiving love, marriage is actually an opportunity to give love unconditionally. Giving and receiving Real Love is the only way to experience lasting happiness. Dr. Baer will discuss how many people expect sex to create love in a relationship, but sex cannot create Real Love. Building Real Love in a marriage, on the other hand, guarantees the best sex imaginable. Sex is a wonderful addition to marriage, but sex can never be a substitute for Real Love.

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This show is for anyone who wants to have a loving intimate relationship and a great sex life. It addresses the many challenges that people face as they try to keep their love, and their lovemaking, vibrant and alive.

Colette Malan gives practical down-to-earth advice to everyday people who have sex and relationship problems sabotaging the intimate connection they want to have. She explores how lovemaking really does make more love in a relationship, and how essential love is to good sex.

Join Colette as she gives advice on how to become a better lover and how to love sex more.

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Colette Malan

Colette Malan

I'm a psychotherapist specializing in marriage therapy, and an AASECT certified sex therapist. My husband, Dr. Mark Malan PhD, and I are a husband- wife clinical team at Malan Relationship Health Clinic. We’ve helped thousands of couples in the last 22 years resolve their sex and relationship problems and develop rewarding intimacy.

If you want to have a great love life, but are struggling with relationship and sexual challenges, we can help you. My husband and I know first-hand what it feels like to have sex and relationship problems. Our sexual incompatibilities almost tore us apart, but we didn’t give up. We found answers and tools, and prioritized really loving each other. Now, after 38 years, we not only deeply love each other, but we are in-love with each other. We can guide you from where you are to where you want to be.

In addition to providing individual and couple therapy, we also provide communication and Tantra workshops and retreats. We are popular speakers, featured article authors, and have been guests on many radio and television shows. Check us out at sextherapyutah.com.

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