Pattie Ehsaei

Pattie Ehsaei

"The Duchess of Decorum" is what fans have come to call Pattie Ehsaei. She is best known for her very successful TikTok channel, “duchessofdecorum”, where she teaches social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy. She’s the perfect example of “tough but fair." A lawyer by trade, she is currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions lending, and has spent the last 20 years in a multi-faceted career focused in finance. From relationship management, business development, investment banking, and raising capital from sovereign wealth funds in private equity, Pattie has seen all sides of the industry. Within the past year, she created her TikTok account as a way to provide education, advice, and techniques to help young folks navigate their way through work, finances, social settings and more. Her direct approach peppered with levity and some real takeaway, has made her an instant success! Pattie's account grew to 400,000 followers in less than six months and has become appointment television for her growing audience. “How do I make and keep a budget?” What is this little fork for?” “How much should I spend for a car?” “How do I ask for a raise?” These are the types of questions that Pattie provides real and honest answers to, that keep her fans begging for more.