We all have them—some are harsh, some are unreasonable, and some are more deal points than deal breakers. Won’t date a guy who’s separated? Won’t date a woman with small kids? Don’t want to be a nurse or a purse? Don’t want to date someone who isn’t a college grad, great looking, or rich enough? Good luck with that. As we discussed in last week’s episode, nobody’s perfect, but shouldn’t everyone have a few non-negotiables when they’re dating? There's great debate on whether deal breakers are self-protective, or self-sabotage--especially if used to put up obstacles or make excuses.
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