Have you ever noticed that good answers and good choices rarely occur when we are stressed out or in crisis mode? Think about it. When you are overwhelmed at work or in your marriage or dealing with your children are you in the best frame of mind to make a good decision? Of course you’re not. You have too many thoughts, or better yet too many of conflicting thoughts racing through your brain. You cannot focus. You cannot find clarity of thought. You cannot rationally weigh the pros and cons. It is like trying to hold back the ocean during high tide. As we continue to dwell on the negative asp
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