Mismatched libidos, also known as desire discrepancy, is the most common cause of distress in a sexual relationship. Libido is much more than how often a person wants sex:
it encompasses many elements, including what triggers arousal and what dampens it, the importance of sex compared to other parts of a relationship, the meaning of sex for each individual, what is pleasurable during sexual activity, and so on. This week on Sex Out Loud we welcome expert Sandra Pertot, author of When Your Sex Drives Don't Match, to discuss the biology and psychology of this issue which affects most every sexu
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