In a recent workshop, a participant admitted that she's nice in order to get people to love her. Is that really kindness? Or is it manipulation? Have you ever been nice in order to get someone to like you? A popular kid at school? A good-looking guy or girl? An employer? Why did you do it? What was the result? How can you tell when your kindness is genuine vs. when it’s a manipulation? How does it feel when it happens to you? Host Beth Green says if you’re getting love through being “nice,” you’ll never feel loved. And if people are buying your love, your won't feel loved either. She says kind
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