Xaern is described as when you like something so much that you start to hate it. We are talking about what happens when you hate that you love someone and also about what happens when a behaviour becomes compulsive.
Sometimes, we find ourselves in a rut as a result of this phenomena. When it is an obsession with person, we can feel insecure and dependent and thus hate the feelings of love that we have developed.
Getting out of a compulsive loop can be complex. Increasing one's self-confidence and lowering dependence in a relationship can be difficult if there are long standing patte
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