The single greatest myth in recorded history "If only you would change, everything would be so much better. And of course you need to change in ways that I am absolutely certain would be to our mutual benefit." Trying to fix or change your partner never works since much as you think you might like to, you have absolutely no control over the thoughts, beliefs, feelings, and attitudes, which underlie your partner's behavior.
Consider the outrageous possibility that working with the one person you can influence, which, of course, is you is the best possible course of action you could ever tak
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