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We’ve all lived with authority figures: natural, step- or foster parents, older siblings, teachers, even bosses. And we’re used to those figures being in charge. What happens when they are no longer there – either because they died, became frail or someone moved away? These were the guys who created order in the universe, even if the order was unfair. How does their absence change us and our relationships? Do we rebel angrily against having been dominated in the past? Do we claim the role of authority figure or critical parent with someone we think WE can dominate? Do we try to punish the sibl
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