So far, we have been talking about the loss of a loved-one. But what about the loss of a "less-than-loved-one?" Someone who used to share our lives, our kids, our friends?
Divorce can be an awful experience. It can shatter lives. And life is now different-where do the kids sleep during the week and who gets them over the weekend? Who cooks the meals, who arranges playdates? Who goes to school conferences?
And the parents, once joined together by love, now what? Their friends now have to make choices-I'll be his friend, not hers. She doesn't get invited to social events anymore, because he
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