There is a popular belief that communication is a vital part of a healthy relationship, but many of us get communication mixed up with talking. In fact, according to life coach and counselor Christopher Moon, talking is a very small aspect of communication, and rarely provides the clarity that is vital during times of relationship conflict. Words often lead to stories, and stories can entangle people in endless, self-perpetuating, confusing drama. It is often the case that, as couples shed excess stories, justifications, and rationalizations, fewer words are needed to express the underlying vu
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