Acting in Your Own Self Interest

February 27, 2014
Hosted by Dr. Irene Conlan

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Episode Description

Tab Edwards argues that there is a very big difference between being “selfish” and acting “self-interested.” Many people, parents especially, feel that acting in their self-interest carries a stigma of being selfish and leaves them feeling guilty. The self-interested consider the needs of others, while the selfish do not. Acting in our self-interest is vital to survival and is not mutually exclusive from caring for others. Edwards explores a linkage between a person acting in their own self-interest and a resulting positive impact on society called “The Chain of Self-Interest,” which shows the connection between a person’s needs and how acting in their self-interest to satisfy those needs leads to The Common Good. We will feature his latest book, Chocolate Peppers: Why Acting in Your Own Self-Interest is Good for You, Your Loved Ones, Society, and the World.

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The Self Improvement Show was created because almost everyone wants to be better, do better, and achieve more, but we don't always know how to do that. We aren't looking for perfection. We are simply trying to improve in ways that allow us more happiness, contentment and success with some laughter along the way. We address issues common to us all and suggest useful tools that will help you tap into your strengths and your wonderful uniqueness. We think most self improvement is an "inside job" so we talk a lot about how to "go within" to make lasting changes. We talk to people who have struggled and won and have great stories to tell as well as those who live ordinary lives in extraordinary ways. The show is laid back, informative and down to earth. The welcome mat is always out and we invite you to join us.

Dr. Irene Conlan

Dr. Irene Conlan is serious about helping you find the tools you need to achieve your self improvement goals and begin to experience the happiness you deserve and desire.

She has a Masters degree in nursing and a Ph.D. in metaphysics. Irene has taught nursing at ASU, served as Administrator of Nursing at a major Phoenix hospital, and served as Assistant Director in the Arizona Department of Health Services. A certified hypnotherapist, Irene has had her own therapy practice for the past 16 years.

Irene believes that in this stressful world we need help more than ever. We rush from one place to the next, to work, the store, to appointments, to get our kids to soccer practice, ballet, gymnastics, school or the mall. We can be found 24/7 by email, cell phone, or pager. We are stretched to the max and wonder why we can’t sleep, can’t think, and can’t relax. We are enticed by drugs, alcohol and sex to give us an outlet or deal with the stress and many choose to use them. Some rage. Some over-exercise. Some go out and shoot other people. Some simply quit.

In this frenetic activity there is one constant – we are each looking for happiness. Ask the addict, the thief, the anorexic, the debutante, the CEO, service professionals, people you meet on the street or while shopping – ask them what they want. They will, if they can verbalize it, tell you what they truly want is happiness.

Let’s talk about the improvements we can make that help us be happy now.



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