Alan Fox writes in his new book, "People Tools for Love and Relationships," "We each must recognize that the partnership of "us" is accompanied by risk. Each of our journeys of deep friendship and love has the potential to end in loss. But I have found no better alternative than to fully explore the world, and my life, with a partner. I perfer to live not only as 'me; but also to enthusiastically embark upon the exhilarating and exhausting adventure of a lifetime, the journeyu from 'me to us'." Most of us would agree that this is a risky journey and many have failed at reaching a happy destina
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