How To Turn A Woman On...With Mark Stefanishyn
January 4, 2017
Hosted by Chelli Pumphrey
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Women desire a sense of passion, emotional connection, and safety in a relationship, yet most men struggle with how to create this. This week on Destination Love, you will learn how you can become the source of love, emotional connection, and sexual passion that women desperately need and desire, with NO reliance on anything external. There's no tantra or spiritual talk, and no communication skills required - just minimalistic tactics and ideas (based on science) to quickly update the skills men need to thrive during the time of the ambitious and independent Superwoman. Host Chelli Pumphrey will interview Mark Stefanishyn, founder of Relationship Minimalism - a simple system designed to help men create the most loving (and sexy!) long term relationships ever, by focusing on the most effective, practical, and consistent ways a man can immediately create love, connection, and sexual passion. Men and women can learn from this episode! Tune in and get turned on!
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The mission of Destination Love is to help people understand why they experience certain feelings, behaviors, and struggles in their relationships through the use of psychology, attachment, and the science of the brain in a fun, intriguing, and engaging format.
I want to empower people to stop relying on fate and fairy tales to find love. Destination Love covers many topics around relationships to help people increase their awareness of self and others, as we explore the science, psychology, and even the more mysterious side of relationships.
Destination Love is not about learning to find love through creating perfect Hollywood looks, a flawless online dating profile, or saying the right words to catch that perfect date. Instead, we empower people with knowledge, to increase people’s courage to be more authentic, and to explore and explain the mysteries of why we do what we do in relationships.
Chelli Pumphrey, MA, LPC, the Love Strategist, is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Relationship Expert. With over twenty years of experience as a psychotherapist, Chelli blends her knowledge of psychology, attachment, and the science of the brain to help people find love. She’s your relationship wing-woman, but with solid advice that actually works! Chelli will help you overcome fear, become more authentic in your relationships, find compatible partners, and put an end to unhealthy relationship patterns.
Chelli is passionate about helping people develop healthy, committed, and fulfilling relationships. She has both a psychotherapy and coaching practice, leads transformative retreats and classes and regularly publishes blogs and articles about helping people find the courage to live and love with authenticity and passion. Chelli will also be a featured relationship coach in Leap, a movie due to be released in 2017, about the transformative power of coaching.
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Dr. Valeria Chuba
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Christian de la Huerta
Christian de la Huerta has been a writer, speaker, retreat and group facilitator for over 20 years. Author of the award-winning and critically-acclaimed “Coming out Spiritually,” he is currently working on a new book “Soulful Power.”
Christian is creator and teacher of several self-development programs focusing on awareness, advanced spiritual practices and growth, understanding sex and relationships, mechanisms of ego and projection, life purpose, and reclaiming personal spiritual power. His teaching is innately connected to the essence of world spiritual traditions.
An acclaimed speaker at spiritual communities and universities nationwide, Christian also practices as a leadership development consultant in the corporate world.
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Mark Manson is a blogger, author and entrepreneur. He specializes in writing personal development advice that doesn't suck. His website MarkManson.net is read by over 2 million people each month. He lives in New York City.
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Dawn Maslar MS. award-winning author, adjunct biology professor, and researcher in the science of love. She is a TEDxBocaRaton 2016 speaker on How Your Brain Falls In Love and TEDxWestBrowardHigh 2016 speaker on Falling in vs. Staying in Love. She was voted one of the Top 20 Most Followed Dating Experts on twitter and Best 28 Dating, Marriage and Relationship Blogs in the UK to follow in 2015. Her work has been featured on South Florida Today, Miami Herald and NPR. Her new book is titled Men Chase, Women Choose: The Neuroscience of Meeting, Dating, Losing Your Mind, and Finding True Love. View Guest page
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Zack started six business which have been featured in Wired Magazine, the New York Times, and the Wall Street Journal. He has rung the NASDAQ bell, won first place at the largest university business competition in the world, and was named one of the top 100 entrepreneurs by VSpring Capital. He lived in Ukraine for two years on a religious and humanitarian mission and started a non-profit working with victims of domestic violence in Ukraine.
He has been to 34 countries and likes the ones best that he went to with his wife.
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Currently he works as a management consultant for Fortune 500 companies, and lives in Dallas with his wife. View Guest page
Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt inspires open hearted courageous living, with delicious sass. Featured on CBS, TLC, FOX and weekly on the Good Men Project, this cum laude graduate of Columbia University is the author of 3 books, with one in the oven. She’s a coach to celebrities and the Host of the sexy empowering show IntimateConversationsLIVE.com. Allana’s passionate devotion to helping men and women reclaim their joy, freedom and personal power dating and in relationships is rooted in her own experience. Now she inspires women to embrace their sacred erotic nature and find strength in their softness to attract all the love and attention they desire. She heals men’s emasculated hearts, cures their ‘nice guy’, and awakens their ‘noble badass’ to create hot, healthy intimate relationships. She pole dances for pleasure, has ridiculous amounts of joy as a mother and inspires reverence for our exquisite sexual nature. View Guest page
A former US Air Force Captain turned Author / Coach / Speaker, Bryan Reeves has triumphed through multiple dark nights of the soul after hurling himself into the transformational fires of intimate relationship over and over again. With a Masters Degree in Human Relations and massive insight gleaned through countless adventures, Bryan now coaches men, women and couples in creating thriving lives and relationships. Bryan has served on the Executive Council for the Global Alliance for Transformational Entertainment (GATE) and worked on projects featuring Rev. Michael Beckwith, Marianne Williamson, Deepak Chopra, The Oracle of Tibet, Don Miguel Ruiz and other worldwide luminaries. He is a regular blog contributor to The Good Men Project, Thought Catalog, Raw Attraction Magazine, Sexy Conscious Awake and more and is the author of “The Sex, Flirting, Dating, Hunting and Hoping Diet” and "Tell The Truth, Let The Peace Fall Where It May". View Guest page
Mark Stefanishyn the founder of Relationship Minimalism - a simple system designed to help men create the most loving (and sexy!) long term relationships ever. By focusing on the most effective, practical, and consistent ways a man can immediately create love, connection, and sexual passion, Mark has created a unique masterclass focusing on the single most important factor in a relationship - how the woman feels.
There's no tantra or spiritual talk, and no communication skills required - just minimalistic tactics and ideas (based on science) to quickly update the skills men need to thrive during the time of the ambitious and independent Superwomen. Mark's writing has been featured on MindBodyGreen, The Good Men Project, and he is the host of the Millennial Man Relationship Podcast. He is a practicing massage therapist, kettlebell enthusiast, and KPC Self Defense Practitioner. View Guest page
Katherine Woodward Thomas
Katherine Woodward Thomas, M.A., MFT is the author of the New York Times Bestseller Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After which was nominated for a Books for a Better Life Award, and the national bestseller, Calling in “The One:” 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life. She is also a licensed marriage and family therapist and teacher to thousands from all corners of the world in her virtual and in-person learning communities.
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Her life-affirming and highly transformative teachings been featured on The Today Show as well as in The New York Times, Time Magazine, The Wall Street Journal, The Washington Post, The London mes, People Magazine, Women’s Health and many other media outlets throughout the world. View Guest page
Andria Tyner is an ambitious young woman who comes from a delectably multicultural background. Being born to African American, Polish, French, Dutch and Native American ancestry, she comically refers to herself as the "North American Mutt". She was raised in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, and is a hard working college student working towards finding exactly what profession would best suit her skill set. Working towards these goals every day, she hopes to see herself traveling more. Currently she is working towards getting her general education done, and is also writing a non-fiction LGTBQ novel. View Guest page
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Camille has a unique talent and incredible passion for creating instant, in-person connections and building authentic relationships.
After years of pushing past her introverted nature to meet and attract amazing people into her life, she watched the number of times she was asked out by men climb into the triple digits without ever having gone online. Other women were constantly asking for the secrets behind her dating and relationship successes and Master Offline Dating was born!
Through courses, coaching, and live workshops she now helps singles everywhere create their own real world romances by providing the key tools to naturally attract and date great men.
You can get her FREE resource Best Date Ever: The ultimate guide to turning a chance encounter into an epic first date by visiting: www.masterofflinedating.com/destinationlove View Guest page
Sandy Weiner, founder of Last First Date, is devoted to helping women achieve healthy, toe-curling, off-the-charts love in the second half of life. An internationally known TEDx speaker, dating coach, author, course creator and retreat leader, Sandy specializes in helping women communicate effectively, set clear boundaries in relationships, and value themselves. She believes that a woman of value attracts her best partner.
Sandy has contributed hundreds of articles to several prestigious publications including the Huffington Post, Psychology Today, and The Good Men Project, and is the dating expert at Better After 50. She's also the host of Last First Date Radio, an acclaimed show about attracting and sustaining healthy relationships in midlife. Sandy wants you to go on your LAST FIRST DATE! View Guest page
Teri Lynn Wilkins
Teri Lynn Wilkins has been working as a life coach for nearly 14 years. She has been featured in magazines and newspapers across the country, has appeared on every local news channel and even the popular, HGTV.
After an 8 year journey through Infidelity (as both someone who cheated and was cheated on) Teri Lynn realized that there was very little help and understanding about the topic. Most people who experience betrayal are still hurt and angry, even years later. Unable to heal, move forward and create love in their lives. So, in 2014 she decided to specialize in infidelity, cheating and betrayal. Her own personal journey unveiled insights into why people cheat, how to avoid Infidelity and how to heal if it does happen. View Guest page